people. aren't we a funny lot?
we are bizarre, a mindfield, a science experiment of a higher being (kinda).
personalities. what about them?
there are more than what meets the eye. i bet most of us have been judged one way or another based on what they hear from other sources or second-hand information, and sometimes the mood they are in when they see us. their prerogative definitely is of no consequence to us at all or we try not to, but when we think about it, it's definitely not fair.
you cannot really say much of a person until you have dealt with them personally and or have been a beneficiary (or victim) of who they are. i am quite lucky that i have been a beneficiary of kindness and positivity and support in my thirty-odd something years in life. and i have had a few misjudgement of character from one or two, but very rare, and gave me the once-bitten-twice-shy kind of result. you live. you learn. all good.
this blog entry is just to declare that i am just grateful for the awesome inspiring people you get to meet in this lifetime, may they be from work (colleagues/patients/clients), from life in general (virtual or physical) or others from universal conspiration.
my heart is touched by kindness. i am humbled and taught everyday by other people's "schamazeness".
postscript: awesome news from my family are just one of the many wonderful blessings i am having trouble keeping at the moment. they are concerning around: babies, engagement/elopement/or wedding (who knows?hehe), moving houses, travels, new jobs, awards.
who am i to grumble?
besides, being mopey is so 2010. happy is the new hipster.
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{photo: taken on my "Strangers" series of photographs as taught by Taylor Wessing Portrait awardee David Graham}
3 comments:
Amen, to every word you've written.
And there really is no point in judging people.
We all commit mistakes, we make stupid decisions,
we have moments of weakness.
All we have to do is forgive (ourselves, included)
and be very grateful to those who are kind to us,
to those who forgive us, to those who teach us a lesson or two. :)
Love this entry, Chel.
Love that photo, too!
I'm happy for all the good news in your life! :)
Hi Ai! lovely to see you here.:-)
True,Ai, I always believe that the person who is perfect can cast the first stone. so when people are mean to us, and make horrible accusations, then it is not fair, nor humane at all. a flippant comment would be laughed off, but if it is a series of comments or saga directed to us, based on chinese whispers, or worse,their mood, then that is tantamount to assault.
Keep happy,Ai. Thank you for gracing my blog with your presence.
Keep a kutsilyo handy for assaults like that. LOL.
Seriously, it's ok to be angry or to walk away. I personally do not tolerate unkindness (and unkind people).
I always come here, Chel, even if sometimes I don't leave a comment. :)
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