Wednesday 14 September 2011

an aviso for an aviso is a must



{photo: lovely tabletop centrepiece decour, at the Laurent Perrier Champagne Tent,at last year's London Taste Festival}

The Human Resources department in the new workplace has definitely messed my schedules in the biggest way possible. And not in a good way.

On the day the job was offered to me,the OT department people asked for a date when i could start soonest. I calculated and estimated, and answered the 19th of September.

The HR department required some documents from me, so I went to see them a few weeks ago, at the same time looked at properties we could potentially rent for my 19th of September start.

But!... after talking to the HR lady officer,I was told that my starting date is NOT the 19th of September as they still need to process my criminal records check (CRB check, equivalent to an NBI background check), which could take at least 3-4 weeks.

I was astounded because it only means my start date will be pushed to the middle of October. So it meant, the properties that were for rent which we viewed that day and liked/loved,will not be available by the time we were ready to rent it. The HR lady said "its not clear what date you will start but it will be around that week of October, and you will be notified by us, when", in between sips of her tea (the cow!).

A little bit deflated that day, i went home but soon recovered because i thought i could use some chill-time and do odd jobs here and there and see girlfriends before i go move counties.We also calculated and rejigged our plan to look at properties again at the end of September, and move in the first week of October just in time for start of the work. (we thought!)

Yesterday, I received a phonecall when i was on the train, the OT department telling me they're looking forward to seeing me on Monday, the 19th. Gasp. *S%^*@£!!!*. I do not have a house yet, no furnishings, nothing. Thinking, it was too soon to rent a place when I am not working there yet. Wrong!

{Some questions looming from yesterday: why did the OT department not talk and communicate to the HR department? Did the HR people, in their lackadaisical attitude think they can do this to all wide-eyed-eager-newly-hired employees like moi? What to do!!}

My brain went on overdrive yesterday and my supposedly leisurely afternoon for myself, became a panic contact to all home agents in Norfolk to arrange house viewings as soon as possible in Pret-A-Manger cafe between furious bites into my chocolate croissant and truckers-sip of my cappucino. (Lady-like goes out of the window when stressed,me!)

I wanted to throw a tantrum and be angry but the thought of being angry makes me tired, so i decided to just mope about this for a few days and get over it.

So today, Adrian and i bought a furnitures for a whole living room and diner/kitchen for a house we have yet to see, and still have no clue whatsoever whether it would fit the sizes of these furnishings. Not the way i wanted to do it, but time is so precious and so little we had to resort to going the other way around.

Apparently, some situations call for you to go via the backdoor to get in.

But it doesn't make me a happy bunny. I am not good with dealing with other people's miscommunication to myself and I am suffering the consequences of other people's inaptitude for the job they are supposed to do.


But then again, i heard of serendipity. Some accidents may turn out great.

If it is, there'd bloody be a John Cusack look-a-like at the end of all these mishaps.


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Anyways, enough of my old-woman whining.

here's hoping the winds are gentler down your parts.


have a serendipituous week, my lovely friends..



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PS. I am loving the new look of my blog. I'm sure you do,too.

its done by the super talented Fancy Girl Designer, Patricia Alix-Villa. Awesome designer, mom and friend.

16 comments:

konsuy said...

enjoy your big move. never mind that it wasn't how you originally planned. i'm sure things will get better. ayo ayo gwapa.

Patricia said...

oh my goodness chelo, that would have totally freaked me out! how awful of that hr lady cow este officer to do that to you! but good luck and i'm keeping my fingers crossed and sending you warm positive thoughts on this new journey! *hugs* wish i could be there to help!

kookooforcocopuffs said...

enjoy your big move. never mind that it wasn't how you originally planned. i'm sure things will get better. ayo ayo gwapa.

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chi, i was relaxing last week,when i finally accepted that i am not rushing things..now, back to rushing, and 10x more,haha;-)

thank you,chichi, for always taking time to drop by my blog;-)

kookooforcocopuffs said...

oh my goodness chelo, that would have totally freaked me out! how awful of that hr lady cow este officer to do that to you! but good luck and i'm keeping my fingers crossed and sending you warm positive thoughts on this new journey! *hugs* wish i could be there to help!

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Patricia, first of all, THANK YOU!!! My blog is so beautiful i wanna live in it;-)

Patricia, if you were here, more than help gyud imong mabuhat, i would have asked you to cook your yummy dishes for me, and help me buy the furnitures;-) LOL...;-)

Again, thanks for the new lookon this blog, im officially a Fancy Girl;-)

Patricia said...

and i'm so glad you like it chelo! =) thanks for the plug at fb, it really means a lot to me. =D

neighbors unta ta oy!

Aileen said...

Oh, the incompetence of other people! Things happen for a reason, so maybe, there's one happy reason for all this confusion. :)

All the best, Chel! I'm excited for you!

Loving the new blog look. This only means one thing -- you MUST blog everyday! :D

Candelaria said...

Ah you got furniture na diay? is it as comfy as the one you have in Essex? hehehehe....

kookooforcocopuffs said...

and i'm so glad you like it chelo! =) thanks for the plug at fb, it really means a lot to me. =D

neighbors unta ta oy!

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How lucky would i be, if neighbours ta? Id be eating your lovely meals and id be getting webite tutorials from you,LOL..and of course, id pay by babysitting the two boys so you and Manuel would go out on date nights;-)

kookooforcocopuffs said...

Oh, the incompetence of other people! Things happen for a reason, so maybe, there's one happy reason for all this confusion. :)

All the best, Chel! I'm excited for you!

Loving the new blog look. This only means one thing -- you MUST blog everyday! :D

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Hi, AI..lagi oi..now im having all these worries with regards getting the right house for us..we lost a house which we loved which was near a river..that was beautiful..and nothing comes close to it after that..but then again, maybe it wasnt meant to be..

Thanks,Ai;-) your love and support means so much;-)

I am excited to blog everyday;-)

kookooforcocopuffs said...

Ah you got furniture na diay? is it as comfy as the one you have in Essex? hehehehe....

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Theyre really comfy furniture,kai..u will need to try and test it;-) im sure you will;-) hehe

inJiNuous said...

Can't wait to see you and Adrian in your new place, chel! :) Sige lang, sa sugod ra ni. I'm sure naa pa ni sumusunod na adjustments gamay, but i know this isn't something you can rise above of. Then, syodi maikog og wayway. hihihi. Take care, chel! :) your blog looks lovelier!

kookooforcocopuffs said...

Can't wait to see you and Adrian in your new place, chel! :) Sige lang, sa sugod ra ni. I'm sure naa pa ni sumusunod na adjustments gamay, but i know this isn't something you can rise above of. Then, syodi maikog og wayway. hihihi. Take care, chel! :) your blog looks lovelier!

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Hahaha, I love the "syodi maikog ug wayway" hahaha, syodi oka jud..wayway to the max, yako ar ra gyud na;-)

thanks, jin, i feel so much strength when friends like you who i look up to give me words of encouragement, dako kaayo nang boost sa akong confidence to face this head-on..thanks,jin..

mingaw nako nimo..blog na bah!

PS..happy kaayo ko sa akong bag-ong blog look;-) apil si Ana na shock na new look akong blog she thought it wasnt my blog,haha;-)

Liza said...

I LOVE the new look of your blog, Chel!

Oh my! What an inconvenience those HR folks have caused you. Ako pa ato Chel, basin nagwala na! Good thing you kept your cool. Best wishes on the new job and the new home! Tell us unya how it goes. Cheers!

Jo Quijada said...

na-feel gyud nako imong panic and frustration, CHEL. oh my. but i have to echo what you said, this may turn out to be for the best. *sending lots of hugs your way just the same*

kookooforcocopuffs said...

I LOVE the new look of your blog, Chel!

Oh my! What an inconvenience those HR folks have caused you. Ako pa ato Chel, basin nagwala na! Good thing you kept your cool. Best wishes on the new job and the new home! Tell us unya how it goes. Cheers!


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Thanks,Liz;-) my friend Patricia, (see her link) is such a creative genius, i get freebies from her alot..(lucky me!)..

You know what, the HR lady who was assigned to my case was replaced. i think she was reprimanded. When i went there this week, after my complaint, a different lady was handling my case now..she was sooo unaffected by her own responsibilities..she knew i live far from norfolk and she was just too uncaring to budge her arse,haha..thanks for feeling for me,Liz..;-)

kookooforcocopuffs said...

na-feel gyud nako imong panic and frustration, CHEL. oh my. but i have to echo what you said, this may turn out to be for the best. *sending lots of hugs your way just the same*

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hi Pie, there was a period that i just wanted to b angry with the lady and i realised, mas tiring man ang ma-angry oi kay sa moving-on, so i just went on with it..but not without complaining to the OT department about it..eversince the complaint they processed my stuff very quickly..;-)