Sunday 16 May 2010

i get disappointed






..when people dont blog as often (not at the person but on the circumstances).

because maybe, i , in my own little world needs sustenance to carry on, to get a sort of connection to your world.

and if my love ones/dear friends/people i admire do not blog enough, i get deflated.

i get disappointed (at the circumstances--not the person--just to clarify,LOL)..


its a little spoiled brattish of me actually, to want people to cater to my needs.

i have to remind myself, i am the same when i'm busy or doing things, i do not blog at all.


but at the same time, i am too caught up with myself, that i want my wants to be fulfilled --with updates from your wprld, and my love for inspiring entry posts be satiated.

so i had to sit with myself and tell myself off. to remind myself that people (like me) are busy with things, with their day-to-day lives, and cannot be on the computer all the time.

so i apologize my friends..i am too are guilty of the same crime when i am on vacation or not feeling well, or in the middle of a big essay to be submitted..


i promise to blog as often as i can, and not to expect too much from your end--because i know, in reality, life doesnt revolve around our computers...or me (haha).


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moral lesson:

"whatever we ask from our love ones, whether loyalty, dedication and passion (or constant blog updates)--we make sure we are able to ask from ourselves first--before we ask of them."

10 comments:

Mommy Blogs said...

it's funny because i am like this too! i am hungry for your stories, because at down times it's the only way we connect to each other. *hugs*

Shutterfairy said...

nagkurog kurog.. mag blog ko.

Aileen said...

This sounds like a conversation I had with a friend (now my sister). *grin*

I love reading you, Chel.
Keep blogging. :)

And I totally agree with the moral lesson. :)

kookooforcocopuffs said...

it's funny because i am like this too! i am hungry for your stories, because at down times it's the only way we connect to each other. *hugs*

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youre so right che..i feel as if, wala koy masulti to someone who i hardly know anything about anymore..the connection is lost if the blogging (where all this friendship started and where most my relationships are kept intact) stops..
i feel i cannot connect anymore if i dont know much about someone's life=) weird noh? its deflating not to hear from someone..or maybe, its just me trying to keep the connection going..

kookooforcocopuffs said...

nagkurog kurog.. mag blog ko.

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nah hala! sige, now na! hahahaha

kookooforcocopuffs said...

This sounds like a conversation I had with a friend (now my sister). *grin*

I love reading you, Chel.
Keep blogging. :)

And I totally agree with the moral lesson. :)

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true di ba ai? lol..

we need the relationship going..if we stop writing, where is this relationship heading..its not as if we talk everyday to everyone..the connection started from reading one another's thoughts, it will end if that ends...
but then again, its wrong to think that people are just on call 24 hours a day and that they have no life outside the computer,haha..

chiarajulieann said...

lol!

i'm exactly like this. i frown when there's nothing new in my blogroll, but i can be 'too busy' or inspiration-less/motivation-less to post for days/weeks/months on end.

funny, i somehow missed/skipped this and the coffehouse post. i just found it now, so it was like i got a bonus, i read 2 posts from you in one evening. he he.

chiarajulieann said...

p.s. i soooo love carnations, way more than roses! lovely!

kookooforcocopuffs said...

lol!

i'm exactly like this. i frown when there's nothing new in my blogroll, but i can be 'too busy' or inspiration-less/motivation-less to post for days/weeks/months on end.

funny, i somehow missed/skipped this and the coffehouse post. i just found it now, so it was like i got a bonus, i read 2 posts from you in one evening. he he.

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isnt it a nice surprise to have something to read? i love to read entries from you guys..=) its such a treat and just a way of 'connecting'.

perhaps im just a nosy person by nature, i just want to know what goes on in your day,haha..

kookooforcocopuffs said...

p.s. i soooo love carnations, way more than roses! lovely!

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carnations last a very long time=) very economical if you have guests for a succcession of many days without having to change the flowers..=)