Monday, 19 July 2010

It was always on a Sunday

It was always on a Sunday.

She would be silently teary eyed beside me, i could hear her muffling her sobs everytime the entrance song is sung by the choir, the Alleluiah's are recited, or the church organs reverberate through the church's ancient walls.

I am always reminded of Mama and her tears during mass everytime i hear mass from the church.

Mama said, she really gets moved by the masses she hears here. It apparently shocked her, the first time she heard mass in England, the choirs and the ambiance of the church just gets her teary eyed.

So everytime im in church now. I get teary eyed.

Not because im so moved by the organ musician, or the choir's angelic singing (which is quite touching i must say), but because, i miss her.

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You must try hearing mass here too. Its a different kind.

Its so effective and powerful, its moving.



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Some images of Mama after going to our local church.





she fits right into the place, doesnt she? im praying she will want to come back here.

the last time she was here, she was getting bored. and refusing to go out anymore. she would rather stay warm inside the house and cook for us.





My mama..i will always need her, no matter how old i get.




Mama's a good photographer=) she took this photo=)





Adrian's brunch..eggs benedict and english breakfast




mama's food (french baguette and bacon)..i didnt take photos of my food. (it was pancakes)




a loveletter to Adrian scribbled while waiting for the meal..

it said: " Dear Adrian, you are the most generous soul i know. You are a lovely husband. Love, R, xxx".

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hug your moms for me right now..

Saturday, 17 July 2010

just a thought




at the training today, i used an old notebook.

i saw this scribbled on my handwriting in one of the pages.

"Work is two kinds; first, altering the position of matter at or near the earth's surface; second telling other people to do so. The first kind is unpleasant and ill paid, the second is pleasant and highly paid"..---Bertrand Russell.


i remember where i got it from, from one of the placement rotations i did last year.

it caught my eye obviously because i found the saying interesting and somewhat true, yet a little inadequate.

it obviously referred to manual work and managerial /higher position work.

what the respectable Mr. Russell did not mention that work has now evolved and that there is the third kind. the one that uses neither brute force nor verbal commandments to subordinates..but one that uses creativity and imagination, and that job satisfaction is highly important basing not on one's payment and currency exchange but instead, on self fulfillment after one's productivity output and good customer/client feedback.


i tell you what, Occupational Therapy is beautiful. it combines my creativity that i normally would utilise on my hobbies, and it uses academic grounding or whatever is left of my cerebral functions.

treatment of my clients are depending on how and what i think would suit their personality and their wishes, not because its what a medical book is advising me to. (obviously with adherance to clinical guidelines).


where else can a medical practitioner recommend "tap dancing and gardening" as client treatment, and "art appreciation" as part of their rehab programme?

only in my profession.


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alot of people i know can be very good Occupational Therapists.

(in fact, you my friends, who are planning to retrain for a new degree, try looking into OT).

Most friends i have think outside the box, are very creative, love the arts infused with medical and scientific knowledge (because we have to, all treatment are justified on why it is chosen) and throw in the interest of psychiatry and pyschology together, with an element of nurturing and caring quality, voila, an OT in the making.

Yes, you, can be an OT. Look into it. You just have to jump over the tedious studying hurdle. And if you are a studious person by any chance, you will love it even more. (Note the word 'studious', not 'bookish' as bookish types tend to be stick-in-mud,and have difficulty thinking-on-the-spot, a very important core skill in therapy).


And if you are also a lackadaisical person, you wouldnt be able to manage it too, as the sciences, are an important foundation to put a backbone to the profession. and yeah, the emphasis on it actually throws you off centre initially.

You just have to be the right sort of balance of a person. And from people i know and friendships i have formed: i just know, my friends are the sort of people who i know could work with my client group.

And run away at the end of the day, smiling (and blogging) about it=)


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i am just everyday humbled by the people i work with. they are such an interesting bunch.

and i wish you were there today to know what i mean.=)




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seriously, if you are planning on retraining for a degree, look into Occupational Therapy. (not to be confused with Occupational Health-- OH is not a profession, it is a department that deals with Work health concerns like back problems, stress at work, injury at work and safeguarding and regulation of diseases/illnesses at the workplace ).

Occupational Therapy is an allied medical degree that is currently still being debated as at the World Federation of OT conference whether it is Art or Science.

although you end up with a BSc degree, you end up nothing less but be creative.


you can email me too for questions if you are interested..x

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photo: the river thames, Maldon Estuary..

Wednesday, 14 July 2010

the sun has set



(boracay sunset, January 2010)


is it me, or there is something
that when i see the sun setting
so beautifully,
it tugs me to the point of sadness?



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i wonder who else feels that way when they see the sun settling down for the day?

Monday, 12 July 2010

lessons






there are no regrets in my life..only lessons.


and i pray and pray that my memory is good enough to remember them :-)

Sunday, 11 July 2010

india and elaine

i am looking forward to my visit to india this august. first, because it will be my first working holiday. second, as i am photographing two weddings, 1 week apart, i have at least a few days to tour the place, and see some sights.

the groom, my friend C, has booked the group in a 5 day tour around the southern region of india (more on this itinerary on a different blog).

so Adrian and my plan to see the Pink City-Jaipur is cancelled because the 5day leeway we have, is booked for a (free-expense paid) trip to see museums, elephant safaris, boat and river tour, a road trip to a tea plantation, as well as a few nights stay on a riverboat house (exciting!).

so, Taj mahal and Jaipur will be postponed for the next trip to india*grin*


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what's exciting about this trip too is its a number of firsts for me. first to photograph a friend's wedding (someone who is not a stranger recommended by someone, or saw an advert of mine) . a first to do a back-to-back wedding, and a first destination one. the opportunities to do weddings abroad were few and far between and always on a wrong timing.

one was for a Majorca spain wedding--i had a wedding on the same day (plus my schengen visa expired already, and i hadnt enough time to apply for one), and another one was for Tanzania in December 2009(but i was about to go to Cebu--another blog entry).


another first for me, as its the first time, id be travelling with a group of friends to an entirely different country for an occasion where they could see me in action, and a first time to do two countries back-to-back (india and dubai).


im so excited about all these prospects.



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all of C's friends are going to be there. some, i have met during his 30th birthday mountain hike. now that he works in the US, he is bringing some of his American friends too.


one of the people i will have the opportunity to stay in a house with (C is putting us up in a house), apart from our common friends, is Elaine W.

I met E during the mountain hike in the Peak District and eversince then weve been communicating via Facebook. She was one of the most experienced climbers that day, and she, (together with C) made me appreciate/like climbing.

Without E, i wouldnt have finished the climb, as i was so inexperienced, and i climbed before i could walk, lol. Hiking for 18 miles on plain land is tiring, try doing that on peaks and mountains.


She walked with me all throughout and she gave me verbal support all throughout, taught me the proper breathing, and techniques how to get down from slopes.


she was a great support and a very patient teacher as well, considering i was the slowest in the group (she climbed the Himalayas and Snowdon) but she chose to walk with me, and talk me through it. Considering she was fast and more agile, (its a mockery as i was the next youngest to C during that hike), she didnt show any impatience with the very "whiny" me.


And whats most awesome about this person, is that, she also was a Gymnast, represented Great Britain, to compete during Nadia Comeneci's time.

here's her Olympic Profile


here's some photos of Elaine during our climb..





that;s her, planning the next leg...(up until this day, i could not believe i climbed Mam Tor)






at this time, we were worried because the wind was too strong..we decided where to get cover..





this was after the climb, our walk back towards the B&B we were staying at





this was the during one of our "rests"






at one of the lower peaks on our descent..Elaine is like that, she goofs around.