Wednesday, 11 August 2010

tuesday was grabbed by its horns

It is common knowledge among friends, that if i blog, it just means, its because im not supposed to. Its either im in the middle of researching a heavy university work, im supposed to be working, tidying the house or in tonight's case, packing.

So what's new? Its too late to change a habit of a lifetime. And the urge to do the exact thing you're not suppose to, just makes its all the more tempting.


Maybe because im quite controlled with some things, that i am not able to control such urges. I am able to control 'bitch' tendencies, i am able to switch off my natural born mean instinct, and im able to let things slide most of the time, and my pain and 'suffering'/abuse tolerance is quite high, that controlling hunger and temptation to stray from the time schedule is quite difficult. no one's perfect after all. (haha). ( although, my family might argue that i could not control any of the above either,LOL).


So here i am again,at the mercy of time, and at the behest of my baser instinct that i blog about the tuesday that happened we rediscovered corners we used to ignore for such time.


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although Adrian and i have been going to and fro Euston station, we never sat down in one of those benches where people buy their sandwhiches and sit there waiting for their train times.

it was around 1 pm. I needed to get some photographic supplies needed for the India trip at Calumet (camera shop), that i thought we need to have some snack at the station as well as enjoy the mild breeze under cloudy skies.


he had a new yorker sandwhich while i had my sushi box. we sat there, mesmerised by the crowd who were deep into their food, their conversation or their company. adrian and i people watched and we passed commentaries and made up stories about each person that caught our eye. one looked like she was going on a festival somewhere, what with her wellies and guitar and a big rucksack. a group looked(sounded) like a touring Northerner's bridge group. just so.. and one lady looked like she was travelling with her grandchildren, on a day trip to London from far away Coventry. or Devon. the accent wasn't clear enough.





time passes by quickly around these corners of Euston when you get wrapped up by your own made-up stories. people of different age, size, colour and bravado (agh, you wouldnt believe the fashion eclecticism of travellers, from the wellington boots to the grungey goth) just catch your attention and make you want to know where their journey for the day is.







this part was a street just off the camera shop of Calumet. I asked him to do a pose for me. I loved that wall. it makes a beautiful backdrop to any shoot, methinks. he refused to do the pose for me. "absurd!' he wailed in horror! i pleaded, yet he was non-compliant. and i thought he loved me. i thought when you love someone, you would do any pose for them (including pretending to do a wee on the wall pose). but he said he draws the line on "self incriminating poses like that".

were still talking, thank God.



So we moved from Euston to go to Covent Garden. It was starting to rain a bit. It was a toss between being in Oxford Circus and Covent garden. The allure of the ex-apple market's square won over the the hustle and bustle of Oxford Circus. The deciding factor? Drawn by the question: Where did we want to eat dinner tonight?

We decided, we missed having a real cosy Italian goodness made by a man called Mario by a quaint restaurant near Drury Lane. .

to Covent Garden we went.





Adrian scrutinised the display window of one store. No, its not a museum. Its a window display by the high street retailer Cos. After I "ooh'ed and aahh'ed" at the simple yet powerful display of photography in the store's window, i took his photo while he examined the visual display, mentally declaring how inferior they were to mine. He is biased of course. First: he is my husband and secondly, he doesnt know much about photography, so i let him think that. A little ego boost from the husband is a welcome treat. Always.






Looking for Louie Spence.

Passing by nooks and crannies of Covent Garden, we passed by the Pineapple Studio. There is a show here in the UK which features Pineapple dance Studio, a school for dance and performance,its students, and staff. its main attraction is the school's gayer-than-life-itself director Louie Spence. He is such a funny and dramatic character of the show that the show wouldn't probably be a hit without him.

Also, i had to take this photo to show my sister. She and i had a classmate at Make up class who was featured in the show as she is/was a student at Pineapple too.

There was one part of the studio which can be seen from the street as the side wall is made of glass. Adrian and i looked. But only for a bit. Seeing sweaty people dance sans the music was a depressing way to pass by an afternoon.






I dragged Adrian to Charles Fox. Its a theatre and film make-up artists haven. It sells Kryolan, Ben Nye and Illamasqua brands. I have always wanted to get the most sought after 81460/31 Charles Fox brush. Everytime Ana and i went there, they were out of stock. Today, they had two left. I got mine! The other one was slightly frayed, so i pre ordered one for the sis.


Adrian was starting to get fascinated about the magic of the shop when we were inside. There were make up artists who were buying for their trade, and there was an Australian stage clown who was buying the make up for his job.

No one knows much about Charles Fox as a make up haven but thank goodness for going to make up school (or having had one to one sessions with a trainer), we were given suggestions on "where" and "what" to get, which the magazines do not tell you. Charles Fox. No one would even notice the shop as its in a much secluded area opposite to the square. And when you get in, the shop assistant will ask for your card, so you can get a trade's discount.







so we decided the next stop would be coffee/tea. and as it was raining harder this time, it was the best time to do so. we went inside the nearest coffee shop we could find.

he was munching on caramel fudge to go with his tea here. I told him to stop munching when im taking pictures, he laughed instead.







so, we got tempted going by Penhaligon's. I was telling Adrian that the best aftershave he ever had was the Penhaligon one he was given by his son, two christmasses ago. It was my ploy to get a refill on the Amarinthe cologne for me. we got in, the Manager was busy shuffling people about. we were unsuccessful on both accounts. the aftershave was sold as a set, and a Amarinthe was out of stock, but would i "care for the latest fragrance instead?" according to the manager? I wasnt prepared to scrutinise twenty other scents for testing, not when my sinuses have not fully recovered from the recent cold i got. I didnt want to go home with an expensive bottle of scent that will be just stowed in the cabinet because it smelled differently than i initially thought.





we went back to the square to browse and get more products and toiletries for the trip.






rows and rows of shops line the square. it was a busy afternoon as the drizzle kept on, people used the square for shelter.





after doing all our list, we ended up waiting for time, and there were so much to see during the wait. there were classically trained atists who were delighting the square to its music. they were talented and had presence. i wished in my mind, they should have been given a break for their talent. they were busking to get a few quid. their playing and the capacity to regale a wide variety of audience to a classical concert was more than just a few pounds worth.

just one of those things you dont take for granted. that in the arts, not everyone who deserves it, gets their 'big break'.






i said, he looked good holding my shopping,haha. he said he looks good nevertheless. now that's confidence for you.






and this time, this was his turn to shop. he needed to get a 4cup-tea pot to add to our growing teapot collection. he constantly moans about the lack of smaller teapot at home, as we have an 8-10 cup teapots. this day, he decided, enough is enough. he needed a teapot of his own choice, by cupsizes and colour. i pleaded no contest. we also got some great tea leaves for him and travelling teabags for our trip. and because of that, it deserved that photo,haha.





Adrian always tells me stories about his childhood and his parents. He always tells me a story about his mum, having worked at a Sweet shoppe/ candy store when his father decided to leave the military and retrained to become a vicar. Adrian said this store reminded him of the store where his mum worked. It was also deserving of a photo.



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we ended back to Drury Lane for a dinner at an italian restaurant just across the theatre where they play "Oliver".

our conversations were peppered with stories we wanted repeated about the day, commentaries about events that transpired from the day's shopping trip, and a little whine from me how expensive a 32-GB sandisk card is, and how lovely the meal we were having at the very moment.

we talked about having ended up buying a £15 umbrella, considering it was sunshiny when we left the house, and how the tube that day seemed overly-crowded, and how sombre the mood is in the restaurant and how especially nice the proscuitto de parma en melone was that night.


above all, we were grateful. that we both have each other.

Tuesday, 3 August 2010

the anniversary date

it has been 7 years.

we celebrated our 7th in London.

after a great meal, we also went for a walk in the park (him pointing out variety of flowers coming in season) and a "her-and-his shopping". i buy something for him, and he buys something for me,haha (exchange of gifts in other words,LOL). the best thing about it is, you get to choose what you want (haha).

he got me (another) pair of shoes, and i bought him sunglasses (designer mind you!),haha.

after that was a coffee and cake at Caffe Concierto..


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first stop of our day was a meal at the Dorchester Hotel.






the facade of the famous hotel



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but first, i have a menacing pose to show you that i scrubbed up a bit.




after a few retakes, you do lose that smile, dont you?haha






waiting for a cab...





seated at The Grill at the Dorchester..

Adrian looking dapper and hungry






me, looking happy and hungry






starter: Ploughman's lunch






Adrian and i ordered the same main course: Rump of lamb, and belly of lamb..in cranberry and mushroom risotto







there were a selection of cheeses







more cheeses






impressed, we were







Adrian said, to eat the cheese, start at 12 o'clock, then work clockwise, the cheese becomes stronger.







this would be the reason i would go back..banana financier and milk.





they gave us an anniversary cake...the kind waitress offered to take a photo..we were indulged!







the look on my face: satisfaction!







a hallway pose...=) but of course! hehehe..






Adrian stocked up on cheeses..(dearest Ana, we thought of you and your cheese addiction,lol)



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7 years..where did the time go? it feels like him and i just started this love affair,haha.

it is indeed true what thay say: time flies when your'e enjoing yourself.

praying for more wonderful togetherness with Big A.

Monday, 19 July 2010

It was always on a Sunday

It was always on a Sunday.

She would be silently teary eyed beside me, i could hear her muffling her sobs everytime the entrance song is sung by the choir, the Alleluiah's are recited, or the church organs reverberate through the church's ancient walls.

I am always reminded of Mama and her tears during mass everytime i hear mass from the church.

Mama said, she really gets moved by the masses she hears here. It apparently shocked her, the first time she heard mass in England, the choirs and the ambiance of the church just gets her teary eyed.

So everytime im in church now. I get teary eyed.

Not because im so moved by the organ musician, or the choir's angelic singing (which is quite touching i must say), but because, i miss her.

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You must try hearing mass here too. Its a different kind.

Its so effective and powerful, its moving.



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Some images of Mama after going to our local church.





she fits right into the place, doesnt she? im praying she will want to come back here.

the last time she was here, she was getting bored. and refusing to go out anymore. she would rather stay warm inside the house and cook for us.





My mama..i will always need her, no matter how old i get.




Mama's a good photographer=) she took this photo=)





Adrian's brunch..eggs benedict and english breakfast




mama's food (french baguette and bacon)..i didnt take photos of my food. (it was pancakes)




a loveletter to Adrian scribbled while waiting for the meal..

it said: " Dear Adrian, you are the most generous soul i know. You are a lovely husband. Love, R, xxx".

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hug your moms for me right now..

Saturday, 17 July 2010

just a thought




at the training today, i used an old notebook.

i saw this scribbled on my handwriting in one of the pages.

"Work is two kinds; first, altering the position of matter at or near the earth's surface; second telling other people to do so. The first kind is unpleasant and ill paid, the second is pleasant and highly paid"..---Bertrand Russell.


i remember where i got it from, from one of the placement rotations i did last year.

it caught my eye obviously because i found the saying interesting and somewhat true, yet a little inadequate.

it obviously referred to manual work and managerial /higher position work.

what the respectable Mr. Russell did not mention that work has now evolved and that there is the third kind. the one that uses neither brute force nor verbal commandments to subordinates..but one that uses creativity and imagination, and that job satisfaction is highly important basing not on one's payment and currency exchange but instead, on self fulfillment after one's productivity output and good customer/client feedback.


i tell you what, Occupational Therapy is beautiful. it combines my creativity that i normally would utilise on my hobbies, and it uses academic grounding or whatever is left of my cerebral functions.

treatment of my clients are depending on how and what i think would suit their personality and their wishes, not because its what a medical book is advising me to. (obviously with adherance to clinical guidelines).


where else can a medical practitioner recommend "tap dancing and gardening" as client treatment, and "art appreciation" as part of their rehab programme?

only in my profession.


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alot of people i know can be very good Occupational Therapists.

(in fact, you my friends, who are planning to retrain for a new degree, try looking into OT).

Most friends i have think outside the box, are very creative, love the arts infused with medical and scientific knowledge (because we have to, all treatment are justified on why it is chosen) and throw in the interest of psychiatry and pyschology together, with an element of nurturing and caring quality, voila, an OT in the making.

Yes, you, can be an OT. Look into it. You just have to jump over the tedious studying hurdle. And if you are a studious person by any chance, you will love it even more. (Note the word 'studious', not 'bookish' as bookish types tend to be stick-in-mud,and have difficulty thinking-on-the-spot, a very important core skill in therapy).


And if you are also a lackadaisical person, you wouldnt be able to manage it too, as the sciences, are an important foundation to put a backbone to the profession. and yeah, the emphasis on it actually throws you off centre initially.

You just have to be the right sort of balance of a person. And from people i know and friendships i have formed: i just know, my friends are the sort of people who i know could work with my client group.

And run away at the end of the day, smiling (and blogging) about it=)


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i am just everyday humbled by the people i work with. they are such an interesting bunch.

and i wish you were there today to know what i mean.=)




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seriously, if you are planning on retraining for a degree, look into Occupational Therapy. (not to be confused with Occupational Health-- OH is not a profession, it is a department that deals with Work health concerns like back problems, stress at work, injury at work and safeguarding and regulation of diseases/illnesses at the workplace ).

Occupational Therapy is an allied medical degree that is currently still being debated as at the World Federation of OT conference whether it is Art or Science.

although you end up with a BSc degree, you end up nothing less but be creative.


you can email me too for questions if you are interested..x

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photo: the river thames, Maldon Estuary..

Wednesday, 14 July 2010

the sun has set



(boracay sunset, January 2010)


is it me, or there is something
that when i see the sun setting
so beautifully,
it tugs me to the point of sadness?



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i wonder who else feels that way when they see the sun settling down for the day?